To call the shots means to embrace the tides of life that we are moving with. Life doesn't give us reasons for everything we experience. You think you can find a reason to do what you need to do, but you'd most like not find good reasons to love or be happy if you look into life for them. But to truly be fulfilled you need to love irrespective, you need to smile irrespective, you need to be happy irrespective. RALIA taught me, it wasn't life that give you all these, it's you who's gonna get them yourself!