“Love in it’s own dimension, is a game of opposites. It is often as violent as it is pleasant, as delicious as it is terrifying and as joyful as it is painful. With all this coming and going, we share a truth that is not quite obvious. When we fall in love with someone else, not only do we love someone completely external to ourselves, but we fall in love with our own projection of that person, born of our own deepest emotional shortcomings. So the person we fall in love with, despite the possibility that they’re all but unknown, is also deeply familiar”