Bird of paradise flower meanings include freedom, identity, glamour, faithfulness, joy, and paradise on Earth. Same as her sisters relate with their flowers, she became the pure representation of her flower's meaning.
She's been through really dark times and rough moments, fighting with herself and trying to be a different person just to fit on what she thought what the "right place"/ "right moment". When she realised that the truest beauty is in being your authentic self, she started to bright again and bloom, stronger than ever; unique and free.
Maybe because of the past she's really keen on living the moment, enjoy life and remember than our experiences here on Earth, matters. And never...